Romans 12:9-21
Love When It’s Difficult
Mike Giesenhagen
June 21, 2026
Romans 12:9-21
Love must be sincere.
Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.
Be devoted to one another in love.
Honor one another above yourselves.
Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.
Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.
Share with the Lord’s people who are in need.
Practice hospitality.
Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.
Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone.
If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.
Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.
On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”
Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
Discussion Questions
Which of these instructions comes most naturally to you? Which would you say is already a part of your life?
Which of these instructions struck you as something to consider more carefully? Are there any words that you have not given the proper credence to? Perhaps “glossing over” it more casually than desired?
Which of these instructions has obvious merit, but is difficult for you to put into practice? Why? What obstacles stand in the way?
Which of these instructions is most difficult for you to receive, agree with, or implement? Why?
Why does this passage highlight God’s sovereign wrath (12:19)? How is this important in the context of humanity?
Which of these instructions will you ask God to help you with this week?